Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Living

Life is not nearly as hard as people would make it seem. There are several truths that society may say are wrong but they still hold true, and if you follow them life can be fun, joyful and fulfilling.
These are truths that can hold for anyone who cares to follow them. They can be found at;
http://webofdarkness.blogspot.com/
These truths can get you through life and will guide you on a personal journey and unlike society will let you be who you are meant to be and not like society would have you be. Society has a means of creating categories for all people to fall into. It then tries to force people to conform to the category standards. The way society standards go, people are to act identical to everyone else in the category.
Note: The term category is being used in place of race, religion, financial class, and educational class as well as gender. Society has created stereotypes for each of previously mentioned categories and this is the subject I am addressing.
Further more society has set out to protect the young adult by telling them sex is bad and they should not have it. This creates a contradiction that they tend to need to fight and nature wins most of the time. Their bodies tell them they want sex, their nature also tells them to pursue it and they give in to their urges. It is estimated that 85% of young adults (this refers to those 12 years of age to the age of 18 years) will have sexual encounters and over 75% of them will engage in sexual intercourse. This is evidence enough to me that the methodology of teaching them is not working. In my opinion it would work better to teach our young people what sex is and the possible consequences and the pleasures of it, coaching them in how to determine if they are ready for it and keep an open line of communication with them on the subject. After doing so, not worry about it and support them and allow them to decide when they choose to engage in sex.
By properly teaching the young people the result would astound most adults, as a matter of fact 80% of the children that are taught about sex by their parents and they are allowed to choose when they do wait till after they are 18 years old. This brings up a flaw in the thinking of society, 65% of parents believe it is the school’s job to educate children about sex. The responsibility is the parents, the schools teach the biology of it, however most experienced adults can tell you there is more to sex then “the biological function of it and don’t do it”, which is what schools teach.
The age of consent is another form of society trying to control the people. Young adults of the age 14 or older are capable of making decisions on their own. They may need a little coaching and information although I have known 25 year olds who were the same way. The age of a person past the age of 14 years old does not dictate capability of making a decision.
The best means to start a journey through life is to determine your own truths and beliefs and let society do as it wills and enjoy your own life as yourself not as a product of society.

Society

As the world strives to keep up with rising costs, and the troubles of living life people often overlook the natural population control that nature has built into all living creatures. As society strives to control the people it creates laws and rules that complicate and separates people.
However most of society’s rules are bogus and used to classify people. Nature has set up the guidelines for social living even before humans existed. Nature’s laws although harsh allow for living in social setting and allowed for a population control that man has almost defeated the purpose of.
Society tries to dictate how we dress, how we live and where we fit into the world. Free expression is only an illusion as we are taught from a young age how to be. We are taught to be ashamed of our own skin and to cover it up. We are taught to ignore our instincts and that they are vulgar. The act of procreation is considered to be a taboo topic. Society also teaches us to see the differences and to acknowledge them. Society has taught us to judge people instead of accepting them.
These and many of the rules and laws society set forth are the attitudes that I reject. People should be free to act as they would like to. The saying that you’re free to do as you please until it interferes with another persons freedoms is mostly true, even in that there is a flaw for society has also taught us to be literal, because most people look at their freedom as if they don’t want to look at certain things than those things should be destroyed or outlawed. When the truth of the matter comes down to if you don’t want to see something don’t look. This goes for porn magazines and movies, to the old sagging woman who likes to sunbathe nude. These things do not interfere with anyone’s freedoms they just may not appeal to everyone.
Nature’s law of only the strongest survive is another point where society has done wrong. Society in it’s strive to control people has gone beyond itself to preserve life and keep the weak and suffering alive. I am not saying that curing common diseases is wrong but to save a life that will only exist in torment and pain till they can’t be kept alive is ridiculous. It may sound harsh, but why save the life of a person young old or infant that will do nothing but occupy space and have no quality of life. The same society that tortures its own kind this way judges other animal’s quality of life and kills the ones found not to have a chance of a good quality life. This is hypocritical and leaves a lot to be said for intelligence.
It is sad when a baby is born with a defect or too early to live on its own or without severe repercussions later in life, just as it is sad when a young person or adult is involved in an accident that saving their life means they will be paralyzed for life and need continuous care. The point is if people would accept that they are lives not meant to be and let them pass on with dignity the worlds population would not be as over populated as it is today.
It is this population that is destroying the world. Nature had never intended the planet to support the number of people that exists on it today. Had the science and doctors accepted that some things were never meant to be and allowed nature’s population control methods to work the world would be an easier and nicer world to live in.